break up question
I have just starting dating a girl that I really like. We do not work together but know a lot of the same people. We have not had sex yet and before I would I was planning on telling her that I have herpes. We talked a few nights ago and she was telling me how she knows people that have it and how she would never want to get it and went on and on about not wanting to date anyone who has it. I’m not sure what to do. I really like her and want to tell her and be honest. I just know this relationship is going to end when I tell her and I would never have sex with her if I‘m not honest with her. Until that conversation we talked freely about a lot of things, now I dread talking to her knowing what is going to happen.
I’m also worried about her reaction and if she will confide in people we both know. My options are to tell her and let her just end it, or to just end it and not say anything. I’m very confused. She is a great girl and I'm not sure how to handle this.. Any ideas?
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Definitely end it
You can always keep her close to you as a friend and over time you can slyly educate her and cahnge her attitudes about it. Then when she grows up a little around that subject, date her then. Don't expose yourself to someone who probably isn't ready to handle it.
well the bigger problem I see
well the bigger problem I see is that you think she would share it with other people- that does not sound like you trust her very much. I'm thinking there are people out there that might have said that initially but it all changes when its the person they are in love with that has it
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