Looking for Relief from Constant Genital Herpes Outbreaks
I am a very healthy, physically fit woman in my forties and I was diagnosed with HSV2 6 months ago, but I know that I have had it for two and a half years, I always attributed my symptoms to a yeast infection, irritation from shaving, etc. I do not even remember my first outbreak, I finally went to the doctor when my boyfriend of one year broke out with classic lesions, and my blood test came back postive. THEN...things changed, I was breaking out EVERYDAY, while on suppressive therapy. At times, my outbreaks were very severe and lengthy. My medication was changed, and I finally had about 8 days of relief...only to start up again. I do not think my doctor takes me seriously, so I enrolled in a local medical study for suppressive therapy, I started taking vitamins, and Lysine, while I was waiting for my cultures and blood tests to confirm my eligibilty, and again I had about a 7 day period of relief. But, then I started with the constant outbreaks again. And what I mean by constant, is that I have a rash, itching, reddness, abrasions, cracks in the skin and pain everyday! Then the bad new the cultures taked for the study came back negative, although blood tests were positive, I had to have both positve to participate in the study.
Going from doctor to doctor is exhausting and stressful which doesn't help the situation. I have called the National Hotline, the person I spoke with there couldn't tell me anything but refer me to a support group which I have attend, they can't even recommend a doctor, and no one seems to demonstrate symptoms like I do, so I can't even find someone else like me to talk to. I need help and can't find it anywhere. Yes, it stinks to have herpes, but it were at least to calm down, I could live with it, I feel like I will never be normal again. I just do not understand why it is so out of control now, when I have had it for two and a half years, and before this I lived a normal life. I live on the west central coast of Florida, and if anyone can recommend a doctor that understands this disease, I would appreciate it.
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Unusual Genital Herpes Symptoms
Hi Katrina,
First let me say how sorry I am to hear that you are suffering so much from Genital Herpes.
Second, I'm afraid there is not much I can say. You appear to be very well informed about your condition and the treatments available for it.
One thing did strike me about your Genital Herpes history: The symptoms got really bad as soon as you were diagnosed. Have you thought about stress and anxiety about having this condition as a possible trigger to these outbreaks? You could literally be worrying yourself sick!
You could try dealing with your anxiety and stress regarding Genital Herpes to relieve the symptoms. Stress is a very common trigger for outbreaks.
You could try hypnotherapy or other types of therapy, maybe relaxation techniques or similar. I suggest you discuss this with your doctor, and you never know, it might help.
Please do tell me what you think of this approach and report back with what ever you decide to do next.
Regards,
iv
stress relief therapy
Thank you Iv,
But initially I was put on antidepressants, and recommended seeing a counselor, which I am doing, and has helped some. I am no longer on the antidepressants, and have cut out other things like caffeine, which has lessen my anxiety. It is just so sad that you have to feel so alone when you are in such pain, because this is not the kind of disease that people talk about. I mean when you are not feeling well, and someone asks what is wrong, you just don't say,..."Oh, I am having a Herpes outbreak." I work in the medical field, and I see the stigma that this disease carries, and it is terrible especially when 1 in 4 people have HSV, and it is such a big secret when you do have it. It is just sad that there is not more available medical help.
Katrina
choraphor
I stumbled accross this web site. You'll have to google search it. A natural topical remidy claims to eliminate the virus. You would have to research it yourself. The name of this creme is Choraphor. Good Luck. I feel for you.
herpes vs. health
Dennis Clark here. As a first time visitor, I hope that Katrina and others see my note. I am the author of the book, "Treating Herpes Naturally with Larrea Tridentata," so I have acquired some knowledge about natural approaches to treating herpes of all types. Although it can be challenging and even depressing, herpes can be controlled effectively (we cannot get rid of it, just send it into hiding).
Sincerely, Dennis
Hi everyone
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Jack
I feel really alone
I found out that I had the virus just two days ago - unfortunately the outbreak seems to have occurred a week ago but I ignored it - now I am in a lot of pain, I can't do simple jobs like washing my clothes and even showering is too painful. I've talked to my friends openly about this and they're great but I just feel like no-one can fully understands how this feels - its even worse that I have two jobs and have had to call in sick - as i don't sound too ill my bosses think I'm just being stupid and I feel like I'm resented for not working. i don't know how long the pain is going to last for but I just wish there was some-one here to hug me! Please tell me there's people who feel the same.
Hi, No, you are certainly
Hi,
No, you are certainly not alone! I'm really glad you wrote about your feelings so openly, it's important to open up to start feeling better. Here at Herpes Doctor we understand how you feel and we know that you are not exaggerating!
I take it you have Genital Herpes (you just write "the virus")? Are you on antivirals? What has your doctor advised you to do seeing that you are feeling this bad?
There will be support groups in your area. Unfortunately I can't refer you to one as I don't know where you are. Your doctor will be able to refer you to one.
Do get all the knowledge you can about your condition, that will help you come to terms with it. Start with our General Herpes FAQ.
Please write back and tell us more!
Kind regards,
iv
Hello Katrina, I feel you
Hello Katrina,
I feel you because I am in the same predicament. I've seen so many doctors and up until the last doctor I went to, I had no answers. But this last doctors did run the correct tests and my HSV-1 came up positive while my HSV-2 came up negative. The doctor advised me to come back so she can take a culture of any lesions I have in the genital area but I've just been too embarrassed and ashamed to even go back. I totally understand where you are coming from and until I read your post, I never told anyone else (other than these lazy, money hungry doctors). I'll be checking back but if you need someone to relate to, just drop a few lines. Thanks and God-Bless,
Anonymous
Don't feel alone
I know it is difficult right now. I have had it now for 4 years. I am on suppressive therapy right now and it has really helped. Unfortunately, right now I have not told any of my friends. I told the guy that I am dating currently and I don't think he is taking it very well. I have never replied to one of these before, but I really feel for you. Just hang on and BE STRONG.
Submitted by anonymous
I'm a female age 23, and I found out not long ago that I had Genital Herpes. When I received the news from my unsympathetic doctor, one would have thought that I had just received word that I had 2 days left to live. It was at that very moment that I thought to myself that I would never be able to marry because no one would want me now, and two I would never be able to have children. I feel so ashamed that this has happened and I'm emotionally torn up about the whole issue. The worst part of it all is that the man I love doesn't even know, and because of it I feel that our whole relationship is built upon a lie. I don't want to risk his health and I know that he has the right to know, I'm just afraid that I will lose him.
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