Herpes Doctor

Hey guys!

alright well i have a few questions and i hope i can get some answers or advice

well, i went on this date with this guy about 2 weeks back and kissed him, there wasnt much spit swapping and well i met another guy and we did "swap spit" for lack of a better phrase just to find out that the first guy (the one 2 weeks back) has an enlarged spleen and might have mono.
I have been feeling fine and places on the internet have been giving me mixed answers some say 4-7 weeks for symptoms to occur others say "you can tell in a period of 2-5 days" my father is a Nurse Practicioner and i questioned him endlessly on it and he said i would have known by know. I have no fatigue, sore throat, abdominal pain or any of the other symptoms but i'm still concerned that i have it and let alone pass it on to this other person, which could severe our relationship. However, now that i think about having mono, i feel ill, i think its more pshycological than anything but any answer or response would be greatly apperciated!

-Worry Wart