Genital Herpes and What My doctor has told me.

Ok, i am really new to this forum but i have decided to post some things i have learned and wanted to share with whomever would like to listen. And yes i realize that me asking people to not shred this post as mis-information is an invite to get shredded by all of the E-gangsters out there that think it is cool the bash other people 'cuz it makes them feel intelligent, but here it goes: please don't bash this post, i am only trying to help others that are just as torn up inside about having contracted this virus. nothing more...nothing less.

I recently had a doctors appointment with my doctor, of which is not only an M.D. but also a Psychiatrist, and a therapist, the reason for my visit was that i have Attention Deficit Disorder and so does my daughter.
I am telling this information to make a really important point, which is that my doctor has been a healer for over 40 years, not only as a civillian doctor but also a combat surgeon for the armed forces. So i trust what he says whole-heartedly. Now i had a chance to talk to him about my "condition" in the genital area. and here is what he told me, not word for word but good information just the same. Ofcourse, this is also information that for the most part has already been explained to you by others on this forum or by your doctor, but there are a couple of things that i can guess that most people DO NOT know.
1.) eat healthy
2.) low stress as much as possible.
3.) consistant and regular sleep.
4.) excersize

here is where things get interesting..........

5.) IF YOU TAKE ANY ANTIVIRALS,SUCH AS VALTRAX, TAKING THEM EVERY DAY EVEN IF YOU ARE OUTBREAK FREE IS OVERKILL. FOR 2 FACTORS 1.) IT CAN CAUSE SIDE EFFECTS TO YOUR BODY. 2.) THE STUFF IS JUST TOO DAMN EXPENSIVE FOR EVERYDAY USE FOR MOST PEOPLE.

6.) THE BEST WAY TO BUY YOUR PRESCRIPTIONS ARE FROM THE INTERNET AND GET THEM SENT FROM CANADA, THE PRICES ARE DRASTICALLY CHEAPER.
AND THIS NEXT ONE IS A KICKER, WHICH TOOK ME QUITE BY SUREPRISE!!!

7.) GET A BOTTLE OF L-lyzene IN TABULET FORM AND TAKE IT EVERYDAY REGUARDLESS IF YOU HAVE AN OUTBREAK OR NOT. HE TOLD ME THAT IF THIS IS DONE WITH A GOOD LIFESTYLE OF EATING RIGHT AND EXERCSIZE IT WILL REDUCE OUTBREAKS AND SYMPTOMS FROM ANYWHERE OF 75%-95%!!!!!

THIS IS NOT A JOKE. NOT ONLY IS L-lyzene cheap( about 10 dollars at GNC for a months worth) it is effective. i have used it and been using it ever since, and in my household the only time my life is stress-free is when my GF is outta town and the kids are asleep . and i have not had any symptoms since. also i must stress the following:

THIS IS NOT A CURE!!!!!! IT DOES NOT TREAT THE VIRUS!!!! IT MERELY HELPS THE ANIT-VIRULS AS SOMETHING OF A BOOSTER SHOT AND IS A MEANS TO HELP SUPRESS THE PAINFUL SYMPTOMS OF HERPES SIMPLEX. I DO NOT KNOW THE SCIENTIFIC FACTS, BUT IF A DOCTOR SUCH AS MINE THAT HAS BEEN HEALING FOR OVER 40 YRS SUGGESTS THAT TO ME....... I AM GOING TO TRY IT. AND REMEMBER, EACH INDIVIDUAL IS DIFFERENT AND EACH INDIVIDUAL NEEDS TO BE CARED FOR AS SUCH. WHAT WORKS FOR ME MAY NOT WORK FOR YOU.

good luck and i hope this information helps someone out there,

with all my heart,

Cursed0681

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hI THERE .... Thank you, you

hI THERE .... Thank you, you are very kind. I have a question for u... u seem to be misreable in this relationship that you are in. I say get out of it. There is a very fat chance for you to meet a girls that is hsv+ and fall in love with her. Why would you chose to be misreable bc of HSV? After all it is just a skin virus like eczema...You deserve happiness... I am not bashing anything you said I simply believe that we are not any worse than people that don;t have any viruses :)

my child.

the answer for me is simple. as of this point in time it is my way of sacrificing my needs for the needs of my child. i am not set in a good place for my career. so i am biding my time until a better situation presents itself and at the same time trying to improve the relationship i am in. and ty for your concern and advice!! i really appreciate it. this isn't a decision that was easy to make. between my GF and i there are 3 children involved(my child and her 2 lil' ones). why should they suffer by losing a parent when they didn't do anything? her children are both from different fathers, and both of them have been abandoned by their fathers. i am cursed by this big heart that i have and desperately try to hide from the world. but these children have sucked out my heart from behind my strongest wall i have inside of me through a crack that a drop of water would struggle to push through. I fell in love with these her children as if they were my own. That is why i stay. that is why i allow myself to suffer. without me here for them, they would suffer an upringing of almost never seeing their mother and get raised by daycare providers. i had a bad childhood, and i will not allow them to sufer anymore than i can shield them from.

It is hard to show these innocent people the cold harshness that i am capable of. they only know what is in the moment. they have not learned the darkness of human nature yet. and i prey they never do, i know they will, eventually. but i consider myself a man of honor and compassion to those closest to me. and my loyalty is w/o question for those i let get close. if Chivalry is a dead art, then i am a reborn relic of the past born at the wrong place in time.

Also, i have trained myself from childhood and worked hard to overcome the great fear of other people that i was born with. when i was 11 or 12 yrs. old it took me 4-5 hrs. just to muster the courage to say hi to a girl that was breath-taking to me. and i don't want them to gripped by this fear as well. i just want what is best for them. Although , i am basically alone here, no friends or family close to me is a hardship i must bear so that i can finally try to be the man i am and stand on my own feet as best i can.

And i am learning a lot about myself by forcing myself to go through this ordeal. for me life is a lesson to be endured and studied. although, in the past, i have done whatever i could to run from my problems. Now, by forcing myself to stay and work through this hardship of a relationship, i am learning more about what i am able to deal with. so i am pretty sure that this relationship will end and not go to far, i must try everything i can to have a stable and happy family. no, matter how much being with this wench is killing me inside.

But, as i said b4 thank you for your concern , but this is something i must endure for now and be smart about the decisions i make about whether or not i should leave the situation i am in.

with all my heart,

Cursed0681

why oh why did i do it?

question..

Thankyou for responding to my post. I know we all feel the same way. I've had this for 2 months so far and I am doing alot better than I was a month ago.

My question pertains to the Valtrex. I take it everyday even if i dont have an outbreak. What exactly did your doctor say about that. And does anybody else know anything more about Valtrex?

Thanks :-)

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