Herpes Doctor

Wow, I really honestly hope this posting is a joke. If it's not then it is a harsh wake up of the huge STD epidemic that is surely to follow, I think my dear that if you are being honest one day herpes might be the least of your problems. HIV or hepatitis will be what your dealing with. DO you know having herpes puts you at higher risk of catching HIV, hep. and all other STD's? do you know herpes can not always be prevented by wearing condoms? because only the part covered by the condom is protected. These days more then ever to begin with kids are having sex at a much younger age then any generation before this, with more partners, and HIV has only been around documented since the 80's, and with as you say hardly anyone wearing condoms anymore???I think the so called AIDS epidemic hasn't even started yet. WTF???do you not value your life????at all????? how many young kids, (yes you are a kid at 16, like it or not) are going to needlessly die of life threatning STDS?? use this as your wake up call and don't be one who dies of catching a deadly STD?? WTF I can't believe you if your serious that this is how horrifyingly bad the sex ed is!!! What ever happened to sex being special? I dare you to go to HIV and Aids sites and read the testomonials, they are normal people who are catching these diseases, NO ONE thinks they will be the one to catch them KWIM? Honestly you need to not only not hide the fact you have herpes fess up to having it to the ppl you are having sex with. Herpes could be eliminated if everyone that had it right now took responsibility for having it and took precautions to not spread it, such as being in a monogomous realationship with the "one" instead of who ever whips their pants down. using safer sex and going on anti virals to lesson chance of shedding, or at least taking some natural health methods to help control outbreaks, using anti viral gel. WAKE the hell up before it is too late for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For crying out loud Niki - this girl is 16 years old - you are talking to her her like an over reacting panicking parent. If you were face to face with her you probably would have shouted that whole tirade at her as fast as you could. She is probably alone in this and frightened. Sure she needs information some guidance - Get a grip woman and be responsible yourself.

HC

Well I just want to make sure she doesn't go out there and pick up something that could be possibly life threatning. When you have herpes it upps your chances of picking up other STD's including AIDS, and IMO trying to figure out if you can go around and have unprotected sex at 16- you bet I would shout that at her- she needs to respect her body. I believe I was guiding her. I think she needs to wake up, sorry if you don't feel the same, but yes maybe that is the parent coming out in me, maybe I would hope someone would try to knock some sence into my kids if they went posting the same thing. I have compassion for her, all the way, but she put herself in an adult situation and is dealing with the concequences. I was posting because I want that to be all she ends up with. I am responsible, I am married in a monogomous realationship and I told him a few weeks into dating me. I never once tried to think of how I could sneak having this by him.

1) Tell the guy straight up that you ad he are in no need of a kid, and you're not going to risk it.

2) Tell the guy you're a germ-a-phobe (valid, granted your read the above postings...)

3) You should be selective with your partners anyway, and telling them gently will become easier and easier. There are guys out ther who will take in the information, think about it, and deceide. And some will leave, but mostwill stay because you're being honest.

Accidents Happen, but there is a life after, I promise!