Hi there, I know next to nothing about herpes so I know I'm going to sound like my subject line. I'm concerned about contracting herpes from my partner. We're still relatively new dating, and she has a current cold sore outbreak. I'm a little concerned because she wasn't going to tell me about it until I asked, and she touches her nose(where she has a current outbreak, its in the ring on the nostril) a lot and then uses my computer and touches my cat and stuff.

I'm concerned because she doesn't seem concerned. I know that between 60% - 90% of the population has this, but it doesn't mean I still wouldn't prefer to take caution not to get it. Tonight she wants me to come over so she can cook me dinner. She also wants me to stay the night so I can try out her fantastic breakfast.

My questions are :

1. Should i be worried about her touching me after touching her face with an outbreak?
2. Should I be concerned about her preparing all my food?
3. Should I find a way to not stay the night so we aren't close and touching and cuddling and stuff?

I'm sorry, I know I'm sounding like an uneducated, paranoid idiot. For the most part I guess that is true in this case.