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I just found out I have Genital Herpes - did I get it from my boyfriend?

I was just diagnosed with HSV-1. I am 99% sure i got it
from my boyfrined. After having sex with my boyfrined, the day
i cam home i felt like i was getting the flu. I was dizy,had a
sore throat, and my vagina ached,burned and itched really really
bad. I have never experienced anything this bad. After about 2 days
i burned when i urinated, and i felt sore spots on my vagina. I thought
maybe they were cuts, but when i looked at them they were blistery
and oozing. I had about 5 of them. They hurt so bad that sitting
down and standing up was painful. I told my boyfriend that i had
a viral culture taken from one of the sores and it came back poisitve
At first he said that I didnt catch it from him because he has
never had any symptoms. A week and a half prior to my outbreak I
noticed a red, raw "cut like" area on the side of his penis shaft.
I asked him what it was and he said prolly friction or iratation
from sex, and not having enough lubrication. I beleived him. It
didnt look like the herpes blisters i had. He said it hurt if
i touched it to hard. SO after being diagnosed i asked him about
the cut again and he said that he has gotten them before but
its from the sex being to dry.and that they go away in a few days for hime. But I noticed this cut on him a week and a half after i first noticed it. So uhh thats more thena few days.Could that be a sign of herpes on him and he jsut doesnt know it?
He is going to get tested soon for Herpes. Is a blood test the best way
to go if there are no visible signs on his penis? I am so sure that i go it
form him. MY doctor said my symptoms were all signs of a primary
herpes outbreak, meaning the first time my body has been exposed
to the virus. SO i jsut has to be from him. He has had alot more sexual partners
then me. I know i got it from hie. We have been exculsive form 5 months. If he takes a blood test the herpes anitbodies will show up right? Im devastated and scared that the test will be incorrect. HELP?!

2 Comments

Source of Genital Herpes

Hi Starligth8800,

It's very likely that you got Genital Herpes from your boyfriend. What you have seen on him probably was Genital Herpes. But, Genital Herpes can be latent for a long time, so there is a chance you got it from a previous partner. Tests can be false negative or positive.

Don't despair. Genital Herpes is not a life threatening disease. Read more in orur Genital Herpes FAQ.

Kind regards,

iv

I have had herpes for about 4

I have had herpes for about 4 or 5 years now. I have always been open and honest about it with partners, but am recently divorced and haven't really had to deal with this reality in my life for several years. I have just started dating someone (we have actually slept together, with condoms). We've been going out for about a month now . We met on "herpesLoving. com ".

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