Herpes Doctor

Hi, I don't know what you have, but I do know I thought my mom would react horribly to finding out I had herpes, and I only did tell her after I had my daughter and I thought I had passed it on to her which, I didn't. Long story short my mom was staying at my house helping me and I took her aside and told her I had something serious to tell her, and when I did, she said "OH, I was expecting something much worse then that", she said we all make mistakes and it really sucks I have to live with mine, but I did have some info. about herpes at my place and gave it to her to read, so she could better understand the disease. I was raised in a very strict, religius home where premarital sex was a no-no, I had only had one partner previous to my husband and just got unlucky. I don't agree with premarital sex myself, but I was at a different point in my life then. I would tell your mom, I am a mother myself now, and moms will always be there for their kids, thats what we do. She will be happy you thought you could talk to her. I was so surprised at my moms reaction, this is a lady who freaks out about most stuff, like freaks out. IT could be anything, maybe not even an STD, but regardless you are upset and you need your mom, let her be there for you. Good Luck, knowlwdge is power.

thank u im going to try my hardest to tell her i know shell understand me and my mom are very close but i would just feel embarrased but thank u yo really helped me alot.

Hey no problem, I know how hard it is, I'm sure you will tell her when the time is right for you.ALso I don t know what you have, but I know I have herpes and it doesn't sound like the same thing you have, although it is different for everyone. It doesn't mean it is warts though, it could be something totally harmless, I know you said you knew you had to go to the doctor, but I really think if you knew what it was it would be alot easier to take steps to treat it and you could put your mind at ease, with all the what ifs. To not know is scary to know, is way better, just make the appointment and go. It could be something totally treatable and you could be wasting lots of time worrying about nothing. Good Luck. It took me a long time to get a diagnosis too. I had all textbook herpes signs though, so I was pretty sure, then I got pregnant with my daughter and still hadn't got a definated diagnosis and that was really irresponsible of me. It is the responsible thing to do to know what your dealing with. You can do it.