Did my boyfriend give me this or did i give it to myself ?
Hello,
I went to the doctor because I split my hood and all over in other places on my vagina .
I have come out with blister like sores which are red raw. Its stinging and really hurts.
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, never had this b4. Did i get this from him ? We always use condoms. Is it possible that he had herpes previous, and it has decided to come out now ? or has he nailed someone else behind my back and given me this? which is caused me a considerable amount of pain and making like pretty difficult for me.
Im pretty pissed off either way. Anyhow, Im waiting on results. Im debating weather to tell my boyfriend or not that i have got something or if it is herpes? I dont want him to think i have slept with someone else because I havent and im not like that. If he has given it to me im gonna be annoyed or deavstated. What do I do ?? someone help me ?
Sophie
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Tell him
Sit down and talk to him, if you all are
in a sexual relationship then things like
these should not beheld back especially
since you feel he is the cause.
I was only with my ex bf for a year when I found out but
At first, he asked, did I ever sleep with
someone else but I expected that. I mean it was
a shock for both of us. My point is, if you do or don't
have herpes you should not go through this
alone. So talk to him and don't be so
quick to think the worst in him. My boyfriend
had a fever blister and I didn't know it and neither
did he. So by telling him, you might even
prevent further problems in the future because
he may have it and don't know. If you can't talk to
him, write him a note. You can get what you have to say out
in the open with out the difficulty. Whatever you choose to
do, I wish you the best...
I think it may be a sign
I think it may be a sign that he is cheating on you. And as always, condoms do not protect against everything! I have seen this type of thing before, as my precious girlfriend has it from me, I am sorry to say. Confront him, it needs to be let out. If nothing else, lose his **s.
Sophie, I have been in your
Sophie, I have been in your shoes a few times actually. I contracted herpes on a cruise a few years back and had slept with several partners afterwards, ignoring the signs of both my penile cancer as well as my contracted disease; several women came to me later quite coldly I might add to explain that *I* had given them a disease.
The thing is, that sometimes you jsut can't tell. The sores may be visable but it could have been from anything nowadays. Diseases are quite common these days. And I did not want to be another phobic. It occurs to me that one of these women (my fiancee at the time) hada split hood.